I have a rather plain (if not downright ugly) set of dishes at home. The set was left by the people I bought my home from in 2002. The dishes are heavy, thick and don’t fit in the dishwasher very well – especially the bowls. They were left neatly boxed with all of the original paper wrappings in the box that they came in. When I first saw the dishes I wondered why anyone with any sensibilities or taste would want them. Then I noticed the neatly penciled notation on the box. It read “For the Poor”. Then I understood. Before I saw the notation I had intended to take the box (which had been opened) down to a Goodwill donation center. I thought “I’ll be damned; they will compliment my set of Corelle Ware for four (with one missing dinner plate).” The couple that left them were somewhere in their late sixties at the time and I believe that they dabbled in real estate by flipping houses. Remember those days?
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The dishes themselves had not been much used, if at all. It looked as if someone had purchased them and upon seeing what they were really like (the picture on the box was definitely their best profile) deciding that they weren’t good enough for someone that wasn’t “poor”. Maybe they were right but they are good enough for me. I thought about the dishes again this week because last Wednesday, May 27, 2009, there was an event for Native Americans at Steele Indian School Park (as well as here) in Phoenix. It was: Wellbriety Journey of Forgiveness Workshop sponsored by the Yavapai Nation & White Bison Inc. The reason I knew about it was that a friend had been asked to set up and man a table at the workshop. My friend is a successful mature woman that I would not have thought in the least bit biased or racially insensitive. We were talking about it being outside and this being late May in Phoenix when she said “Oh, they are Native Americans and it doesn’t bother them.” She must know a different set of Native Americans than I do.
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My friend and the couple I bought my home from are unfortunately not alone in the use of demeaning stereotypes. Take, for example, an article in yesterday’s Ventura County Star. The article, Westlake High official apologizes for racially offensive skit, was about two students (who happened to be Latino) portraying negative Latino stereotypes in a skit. The skit was the students’ brain child. It also included a license plate with “BNR” – standing for “Beaner” hereafter to be referred to as “the B word”. If you want more information you will have to read the article. I don’t do article or book reports.
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I found the comments really interesting. I almost didn’t read past the first one:
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Cultural Sensitivity training ??? Are you insane ??? Just because some poor sap cant [sic] take a joke….
What if two white kids were up there driving a hoopty car and making fun of being trailer trash and did that same skit. I guarantee no one would care and would laugh because that would be funny as hell. Oh right…white kids in WV and TO have no idea what trailer trash is…my bad.
Just another example of the pussification of American…get over it.
Posted by fish on May 29, 2009 at 4:36 p.m in the Ventura County Star
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The WV (Westlake Villiage) and TO (Thousand Oaks) referred to by “fish” are affluent cities North of Los Angles. When I read the comment, I thought “OMG!” But I persevered. To my surprise, the comments seem pretty evenly divided into categories. I read through them quickly so I am not sure how even the divisions are.
1. What’s the fuss about?
2. It was offensive!
3. It was not offensive!
4. It was funny.
5. It was not funny.
The offensive and not offensive categories each have two sub-categories of I am, I am not Latino.
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I have one last story about this subject. The Honolulu Star Bulletin ran Waianae High yearbook contains ‘racially insensitive’ photo, DOE says . The story was about a picture of a group photo in a yearbook with students holding cards that spelled out the “N” word.
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The use of negative stereotypes seems to be endemic in humans and as far as I can tell goes back a long way in human history as well as in Christianity (and Judaism, for that matter). The New Testament is filled with “the Jews” used in negative connotations. Examples of negative stereotypes found in the bible have been used to justify slavery, mistreating Jews, keeping females in their place and of course homophobia. It is easy to think people are inferior because they are different. At least we tell ourselves that and use it as a convenient justification for our actions. The couple I bought my home from believe the poor deserved no better than their cast offs. My friend no doubt thinks since Native Americans can take the heat better than whites (supposedly, at least in her mind) it is OK for them to be without air conditioning in the summer. The dean that approved the skit thought that since the students were Latino it would be OK to use a negative stereotype. God only knows what the students in Hawaii were thinking.
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Sometimes I wonder if I will ever be able to get rid of all the negative stereotypes that lurk inside me. For example, those about the couple I bought my home from, my friend, “fish” and the Hawaiian students.